Jun 21, 2011

Why Do American Women Dislike Asian Girls?

Any man who has dated Asian girls who live in the United States, has witnessed the wrath, jealously and prejudice of American women towards Asian girls.

The stereotypical has some merit: American women can’t compete against the Asians sexuality, American women feel threatened and some American women simply think Asians are stealing their men. These all bear some truth.

If we frequent a typical American club, I have had my dates threaten by American women in the restroom. In time, Asian clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asian club, American women are welcome. I have never seen an American lady being threatened by Asians in a typical Asian club. It just isn’t their nature. The crowds in these clubs are usually Asian girls and American men.

They met in the Philippines, got married, and came to the United States with their military husband. Consequently, you’ll meet Asian girls in clubs who are married. If you mingle with Asian girls that frequent the clubs for any length of time, you will eventually meet ladies who are unfaithful.

This unfaithfulness is how Filipina girls are branded as whores by American women. This doesn’t carry the same stigma for American women who may do the same. Hypocrisy is always evident when behaviors of the two cultures are compared.

Asian dating sites have sprung up all over the internet. Some of these sites try to exploit the Asians sexuality. However, there are many Asian girls who want to meet a sincere gentleman for a relationship.

As attractive as Asian girls may be, American men are also captivated by the Asians behavior towards men. A man’s dream of having a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love and treasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been found by American men in the Asian culture.

You’ll hear American men call these values traditional values because at one time these were the values that held the American family together.

In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife and have no desire to look elsewhere for this appreciation.

It’s chemistry that once prevailed many years ago in the United States and has been lost in the myriad of women rights in American society.

Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner from another country? I’m not going to argue the fact that these ladies want a better life. It’s probably true.

I will argue that most women, no matter the country, want to marry in to a better life. Again, it is the hypocrisy of which you are that makes a behavior negative or not. Most women, in the United States, need to look in a mirror before judging ladies from other cultures. Besides wanting a better life, most Asian ladies want better treatment.

Here in the United States, most men come to expect a lady isn’t required to serve him, to want to please him, and love him for who he is. When an Asian girl does, his appreciation is certain.

For an Asian lady, the man doesn’t have to be super rich or look like a movie star, just treat her well and show his love. It’s a merry-go-round with respect and love as its focal point. She wants to please him, he loves her for pleasing him, and she loves him for showing he appreciates her love and so on.

All the above words, statements and my observations have their exceptions. There is no doubt; there are bad men in every country. There is no doubt that some women only are in it for the money or to get a free pass to the United States.

If a few instances define the standards, then just getting a marriage license in the United States should have a warning imprinted in gold. No matter if a couple met through the internet or at the neighborhood church, you have your share of scandals and mistreatment.

The last culture of experts that needs to be giving advice about how to meet and marry a woman is the United States “is there any other country whose divorce rate is higher?

The Philippines and Far Eastern countries do not condone online dating sites. For that matter, it is against the law. I’m not going to quote their law here, but it has to do with moral issues. Again hypocrisy!

I started this article to comment on why a lot of American women despise Asian girls. Not all American women, but a lot. But the discrimination doesn’t stop there. It is evident in the media, politics and indeed in their own country.

The people, who are forgotten, are the couples themselves. Why not just ask them? If two people who found each other are happy, in love and want to be together, why the media and politician think does they know better. Take your hatred, your narrow minded views and negative publicity elsewhere and let us find love “even if we find it on the internet.

Your turn to talk, come on lets talk.


  • i am not generalising but tbh i live in the uk and every thai woman who has come over here after ‘finding ‘ someone has dried the guys resources up and left after 2 years* the length of time needed for them to be able to stay here aftre bein gmarried and then divorced’.so i dont think its anyhting othe rthan our guys being taken for a ride…and i personally have had a thai lady try to come onto my boyfriend while i went to the bar i turned around and she was blatantly staring at me …rubbing my nose in it..smirking…she knew what she was doing..so im sorry but from what i have seen i can see why white women do not like asian women ‘taking’ white men.

  • Lots of interesting comments here. Thought i would tell you all about my situation. I am 30 year old caucasian american engaged to a 27 year old filippina who is still in the philippines with my one and a half year old son. I work in the middle east. met her 4 years ago on a vacation. First off our biracial son is gorgeous as his mother is a solid 8 or 8.5 and I am a good looking blonde haired blue eyed guy. Women in the philippines approach my girlfriend out of nowhere wanting to take pictures with our son like he is some sort of celebrity. We have recentley been discussing possibley pursuing some sort of modeling for him since so many people suggest it. Point being I dont think my son would have been so handsome if I bred with a white woman and unfortunately looks matter in this world. I married a white girl back home when i was 21 and in the air force and she treated me like crap and for that I treated her like crap back. There are good and bad of all races, however filippinas coming from a more humble background and are much more family oriented overall and the hard to find wonderful wife/mother in western culture are a dime a dozen there. I might come across 2 women a year in the states that meet my criteria for a life partner and thats if they are availabe or interested in me. In the philippines I can meet at least 1 a week without trying. They do make sweet women like my grandma still, just they are small and brown. Also my filippina never comes to bed with stubble on her legs because she dont grow hair there and after our son was born she was back down to her old weight instantly and you cant tell she ever had a kid. She always has a beautiful tan and dresses very nice as opposed to what i see back home in walmart The most important thing about the woman I am with is I have a lot of trust issues from a bad childhood and I never feel judged for opening up like I would with every white girl I had ever been with. I love her because she is my friend and I have never seen a mother with so much love in her eyes. She is very jealous though but thats understandable as women go crazy over even average looking white guys there. Now on the flip side why she is with me. First of all like any woman she wants some level of security so as to have a family that is provided for, she could be landing an old dude with a whole lot more money than I have easy. She finds me good enough looking but I am also very funny, honest, romantic, and a loving father. Her limited background with filippino guys was having been taken for granted. So anyways it doesnt matter what race people are. It comes down to chemistry. I do however see a lot of old fat white guys with girls in there 20s that are just with a guy for his money. Some men are in denial and get their hearts broken and other know the score and are just happy to be bangin a young chick like they couldnt get back home. Rather than making assumptions about a couple based on their races or level of attractiveness, you could just say hi to them and politely ask a question as you already know that they have got to be some what open minded to couple outside their race. Its easier to walk around with someone of your own color after all. I dont feel any prejudice when we walk around the philippines, however I think once I get to the states there will be some white woman haters. I expect that the white guys will probably feel a little jealousy as I would if I were them.

  • Um, since when does American = white (only)? America is a diverse country where women of all races feel comfortable and appreciated. If you think women of all other races (white, black, latina, biracial, etc.) are jealous of Asian women, you’re hallucinating. Moreover, you sound really racist for assuming that.

  • Why do all you people think only white men like asian women, a lot of men like asian women and have had enough of american women. You people have a knee jerk reaction to crucify white men, no wonder some many of them love us asian women. Also not all men who date and marry asian women are pathetic ugly losers, a lot of very successful handsome men are with very beautiful asian women. Also why would any man of any race want a pathetic nasty american woman anymore?

  • I find it hilarious that Asian women feel so confident looking like sticks with no boobs and no hips. Most of them have bulgy ugly eyes and are cross eyed. I am very lightly tan skinned Latina and I have dated several white men and you know why because I’m pretty and I wear a size D in bra size and I have sweet hips that my white husband can hold onto while I show him a real great time in bed. Other than the description I know how to treat my husband with respect and remain loyal to him. I come from a traditional Hispanic family and I do all the housekeeping and cooking. I am far from being a feminist. I care only to make my husband happy and I am not overly jealous like I’ve seen Asian women get. I’m sure not all Asian women are bad but I don’t care for them at all. Stupid arrogant twits.

  • Also, name more than 4 famous white men who are considered attractive – sex symbols – who are married to an Asian women? I’ll make it easier, name 2?

  • By The way, your facts are incorrect, and why not point out ponit out the difference in wealth between the countries? Most Americans would never waste their time writing or thinking about this, because many work very hard to have what you so called material items. That’s the beauty of America, you can work hard and have money left over, unlike some countries, they work hard but they are barely able to provide the basic needs of food, water and shelter.

  • Every one has a right to speak their mind, but this article is simply humorous and unfounded. Like all nationalities, people like a variety of looks, colors, personalities, etc.. regardless of their own nationality. I know many men who have no interest in Asian women and some whom adore them. Then again some like Africans, Mexicans, and so on and on. In addition, we all know Asian men who like white women, and vice versa. However, most white men are married to white women in America. Just quoting facts.

    However, no group is better than another, and certainly this article seems to express jealousy. As we all know, known truth need not be espressed nor argued. i.e. The sun rises in the morning. This article is as silly as expressing the details of how the sun rises better in Asia than it does in the U.S, Do you agree and think that would sound silly?

  • OK my turn, so keep your yeah yeah right, yeah yeah right to your self’s and shuddup!

    It comes’s down to two things, green card and money, so i don’t car if your the same age , going to school, she still gets in the country if you last! and if she does better make sure you have his, hers and his and hers together and apart!

    I’m not going to knock American, Canadian or European women, but I will say this women lib hurt alot of relationships in our own country !

    I was married 17 years in a knocked up marriage, and i wasn’t unhappy, if it wasn’t for the fact that we weren’t around each other twenty four hours a day with the kids our own business, i think we didn’t do all that bad considering we had to learn alot about each other while our relationship was growing, i would have wanted to work it out!

    my ami wife was ten years younger, it wasn’t the sex, that was always good, we were smothering each other, the only request i have for our American women is ladies please we all know by now life is a challenge and please don’t let your self’s go physically, if your not work out, ride a bicycle, i do, sometimes fifty miles a day and I’m fifty six years old and i beat Lyme’s disease and I’m also one year seven months free of cancer knock on wood!!!!

    Asian Women (Girls) have got to be the most vindictive bitches on the face of this earth!! wake up guys!!, aah so nice your sweet simple p’nay who lives with so little and is happy??? is that a fact, kiss my ass~!! culture with morals~!!?? kiss my ass again, yeah they don’t get divorced, they just don’t talk to their x ever again and if they see them there so spiteful they just haller some absurd gesture because there so spiteful, vindictive, look the word up and make sure you understand it! and pay attention when you go over there to meet her, and if you get to meet her family, pay attention, you know that mother of hers who was always screaming and you could always hear it while your talking to your huney on yahoo or windows messenger???

    and if she has a computer at home she better have a full time job and do the math, what she has in front of her and if your helping her and god forbid you ever call that computer and she answers and you happen to notice the cam in a compromising position and your intuition is telling you different than she is, you better listen to that intuition!!!!

    I think God was on my side, mind you the Lyme disease and cancer was a deterrent from running over there and getting married to the woman of my dreams!!! got it>??? DREAMS!!!!, PIPE DREAMS, even my buddy who still married to a p’nay twenty years says in this really sarcastic overtone ” Yeah IF YOU FIND A GOOD ONE ” to this day i still stop and take note to the over and undertone of his voice, because there is a message int winded in it.

    I told the gerl from the start i wasn’t sold on this east west relationship and i had little faith in long distant affairs and less belief in a relationship with a age difference over ten years, but do you know just like an actress she sat there and looked me in the cam and said “oh age makes no difference to her” without laughing, I told her she should be an actress, but the next thing she asked did i feel anything, i said what do you want me to feel, I’m on a computer, OK i like chatting with you your my Internet friend, and that was enough for her to run with the ball, so it went on for years, alot of drama, oh geese, and the trips and the intuition that keeps talking to you, listen to that , not her, and to answer to the first reply , Girl you are full of yourself, after your finished using the man and you can step up you will and then you will blame it on him not being nice, because i am a truthful person, i;m honest and I know the difference between need and greed, and I remember what people tell me, a chronic liar doesn’t stand a chance around me.

    this could go on for a month of writing, Guys Really,Thing aren’t;t going well with women here, don’t go running over there, then again it wouldn’t hurt but don’t go falling in love with some sweet girls face is glowing because her hormones are in the right place at the time you meet her because (idonno why sometimes these p,nay look like men to me) but then you feel pity you want to take her out of her poverty, because number one she is going to want, want, want, don’t be signing,signing, signing, your name on all her wants, she needs to learn to live within whatever your means is, don’t rush the relationship, find out does she really have morals or is she just play acting, is she nice girl to you and and one guy said watching guys wank to her as she masturbates on cam, don’t be fooled! don’t be a fool,…This Gerl and I started off on EWTN mass twelve hour difference, that’s not where she goes now!!! I know I don;t have a vagina, but I’m one of your brothers and i don’t want to see you hurt..I know there a decent woman for me here somewhere, i just keep the faith. AMEN to that!

  • I love Asian women, and I’ve always had Asian friends. Many are smart, goal-oriented, talented, friendly, and sweet. And I’m a woman who happens to be confident, pretty, petite, and WHITE.

    I wish people would stop with the comparisons and stereotypes about the “submissive” Asian, which is a crock. Surely, you could say that there’s Asian women who are jealous of blonde white women. What it comes down to is this: There are bitches wherever you go, and if you happen to be cute, you’ll be hated.

    There’s ONE race – the HUMAN RACE! Get an education and stop thinking that everyone wants to be Asian and that all white men want an Asian woman; some white women (such as myself) have a lot of pride in our own heritage.

    And to Apple, the despicable racist: If you want to start pointing fingers at US women getting plastic surgery, then do some research and get a clue about the number of Asian women who get plastic surgery to look more “Caucasian.”
    And before you start boasting about your “edumacation” learn to spell check. Really.

  • Western men can easily find the entire package with a western woman. I am in my mid-twenties, and have been very happily married to my husband for years. I am American, of western European descent. Even though I am not from Asia, I am petite and very feminine. What’s more: I am also athletic, intelligent, very well educated (I have been to the best American universities, and I am currently in the process of earning my third degree), kind and sensitive, nurturing, and my husband and I communicate extremely well because we both speak the same languages. We are currently living in China. Let me tell you about our experiences here…

    People here both think my husband and I are extremely desirable. The fact that he is a “western man”, no matter what he looks like, is all he needs to be attractive to Asian women here. I have blond hair, blue eyes, very pale skin, and an athletic and slender body. The looks I get from everybody, both men and women, here really piss my husband off and they definitely make me uncomfortable. Many of our Asian and western friends here have commented about how he is so lucky to have found such a beautiful woman who is also so kind, funny, and smart. Asian women try to buy creams here to try to get their skins to approximate a more pale colour – we are definitely a “standard” they are trying to live up to. I am not trying to offend people who are of Asian descent, but this has been our experience here with literally thousands of people.

    What’s more, we know of many couples here who consist of a western man (usually unattractive and not very intelligent, sometimes not very confident and/or kind, and often lacking adequate social skills) and an Asian woman. Not saying this is always the case, as there are always exceptions, but it almost always is. At the beginning of the relationship, it is often fun for both because the man may not have received this kind of attention from a female before in western culture, as we have much higher standards when it comes to dating a man. These women like how these men can show them a good time, and they are usually after one thing 🙁 If they remain together past the short-term stage, most relationships I have seen end up deteriorating because the women are not as “delicate” as they are stereotypically taken to be, and the men realize that there is actually a big communication and cultural gap and that these women are after one thing. Both end up unhappy, infidelity is often involved, and innocent children are often brought into the mix as well. It’s really too bad.

    One more thing – I have been hit on by many Asian men here while out with my girlfriends, even while my husband is present! Even if I was not married, this would never be a viable option for me. I want to be with somebody who is good enough for me – an intelligent, educated, sensitive, well-rounded man who communicates with me fluently in my languages and who values the same cultural and religious values.

    If you are truly an amazing western man, you would be able to find (and pursue) an amazing western woman who is well-suited to you and would make you extremely happy. Believe me, I’ve seen it happen countless times. If you look for something sub-standard, you will most likely turn out disappointed in the long run. Just what we have seen, in the multiple countries we have traveled to and the many people we have met.

  • I think the 3 percent divorce rate in the Philippines is due to local laws making it almost impossible to obtain a divorce. The men are free to take another wife without divorcing, so the first old wife is left to fend for herself often.
    American women may or may not like Filipinas, but all the men I know that have married a filipina loose their Asian wife months or years after marriage. It is for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, until disability or pension do we part. They clean the men unless the man is real careful. Most men I know that married one has lost his home, automobile, half his pension and a lot of everything else. They really know how to do this from birth. First you will send money to their relatives, then bring some of their relatives to the USA, and then if you do not have a penison in your future you will be kicked out of your own home. LOL If you have a pension in your future you will have them around until pension time, almost to the day. Some even stay with the men for twenty five years to get the pension. I know of many this has happened to. So American women, you should love them. Just a man here who has one chasing him now.. forty years younger then me, and with lots of red flags. God is great… )-: He made this mess we call life.

  • @rianne
    Asian is not a race. Different races of the same species can mate and have offspring, but their offspring cannot reproduce. Saying that asians are a race and caucasians are a race means that a Filipina and an American man can have babies, but they will not have grandchildren. A labrador and a dalmatian can have puppies, because they are of the same species, but since they are different races of dogs, their puppies cannot have puppies of their own.

    Therefore, using the term race to define ethnicity is wrong, even though most people use anyway.

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  • Why is it being a submissive slave to take care of your home and family. Only American women can take the positive traits of Asian females and turn them into something negative. Facts are facts. Marriages to American women don’t last, while marriages to non American women do. Most American women file for divorce while most non American women don’t. American men must realize that an American woman won’t marry you because she loves you. She will only marry you because the laws allow her to take advantage of you. And then in order to hide her selfish, greed driven reasons for divorcing you, she’ll use the classic feminist smokescreen of “domestic abuse” as justification and rationalization for her selfish childish and thoughtless actions. Don’t fall prey to the manipulations of American women.

  • I am a proud Pinay, I’m born in Cebu. I’m married to an American man for 13 yrs now. I can say honestly that most of the Filipinas I know want to marry American men for better life, not for love. This is why most of them marry American man. These men have mothers and sisters, and those women know the truth but the men don’t because love is blind. Those women are not jealous..they are concerned for their loved ones. They know that once a Filipina marries an American man that they will not see him too much anymore. This is sad for a lot of the American families I’ve seen lose their relative after he gets married to a Filipina. It’s usually not until after he is married that he realizes how very jealous and demanding of all the time his new bride is. American women are not this way and eventually the American man will get tired of this behavior. American men are not afraid to get a divorce. There is a higher divorce rate here in the US, but there is a higher rate of adultery in the Phills..maybey that’s why Filipinas are so intensely jealous. I try not to be jealous or overly demanding of my husband..seems to be working. Anyway, I think that maybe answer your question, American women don’t dislike Filipinas. I have a lot of American friends. They tell me that they just look down on the man because he was too weak for an American woman. They are very self-reliant and are not submissive to a man. They say the American man that marries a foreign wife is because he is too lazy to work for the Western woman. He wants a weaker more submissive wife and he doesn’t want to have to work too hard for his relationships. Most American women would never tolerate this. They view the whole foreign marriage situation as a sign of weakness on both parts.

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  • This made me smile and hopefully after your last post it will do the same for you:
    You are depriving some poor village of its idiot. 🙂

  • Hipocricy is all we can say,i am a filipina married to an american who’s so different from the most,finacial perce’i need to make my own money,in 2 years time i got 2 jobs to help him pay bills,came here with my own expense too(i bought our wedding rings and spend my own money for my papers and medical,he took responsible of my 1 way ticket)which is no big deal coz that’s love for-i never wanted to be a burden in a way.it’s gotten abused tho but i try not to take it so seriously for i am hoping in god’s time we will going to discuss this in a way to solve my querries.i belong to a hardworking family,born to parents who were being dignified as the most responsible ever i’ve known,gave us education and taught us to live simple and not to clamour on luxuries that would lust for a while.contradictory for my 1 year and 10 months of stay her in the u.s i observed that we are being observed easily nor noticed easily like being cheaters and users, social climbers.one reason i know is that we are the minorites,,,one rotten tomatoe will always affects the whole basket of tomatoes,This is not a beg on my part but rather use a keen observer’s eyes that not all filipinas are ideal wife same with not all foreigner husbands are responsible,most of us came here with the bold reason of LOve some maybe for convenience(no offense meant) what ever their reason is should be respected and not to be teased at and made it as trademark for everyfilipinas ,endeed it was great being a filipina, with pride and dignity can shout at the top of my voice i’m not a user and never did plan to cheat and never was a social climber.

  • I do not think that all “American women” hate us Asians as I have found good friends in them.

    I am a Filipina who recently got married to an American man who loves me as much as I love him. He chose to travel 9,000 miles to be with me and my family; and eventually marry me because he believes I am the one for him. I believe that too.

    It is not being submissive to want to take care of your husband as it is expected. Why is it such an issue for us to want to please our partners anyway? I think all women (and men) should concentrate on doing exactly that and remain faithful.

    And on a side note, honesty is not a matter of race. When you all start building relationships, regardless of skin color, make sure you are honest with each other. That’s what would tie you together.

    If you are happy, let the haters hate. You are not hurting anyone.

  • I’m an asian guy and I remember when I was at a bar with my sister and her boyfriend who is white, my sister decided to leave early because she was tired. As soon as she left, a white girl came up to my sister’s boyfriend and kept saying over and over “that Chinese girl” and my sister’s boyfriend would tell her “she’s not Chinese,” and he told her that three times. Both my sister and I are of Japanese descent. I’m not bothered she didn’t get our ethnicity right, but I’m kind of angry by the fact that she kept saying over and over “that Chinese girl” when she could’ve said “that girl” instead, even after my sister’s boyfriend told her she’s not Chinese more than once.

  • I think that the stereotype that asian women are submissive is for asian women in ASIAN COUNTRIES. The asian women who grew up in the United States are as pro-feminist as other women here. If a man wants a woman who will cater to him all the time, for any race, America is not a place to look for them…

    I will agree to the fact that as Americanized as some Asian women can be, the majority of them still hold that traditional sense you (the blogger) is talking about (carring for the family, appreciating the husband). But just because they hold these traditional values, does not deem them submissive.

  • Wow, I had never heard of this before. My Asian friends never even bring anything like this up and we speak candidly with each other all the time…..hmph.

  • Dummy’s Guide to Asian Girls with White Fever

    The WHIGGIE (White Guy Groupie)
    A brief profile of Asian girls afflicted with “White Fever”
    ORIGINS: A subset of women of Asian ethnicity, usually found residing in major U.S. cities, although they have been known to appear overseas occasionally. Closely related to their cousins, Yellow Cabs (Japan), Gwei-Po’s (Hong Kong), Sarong Party girls (Singapore), Twinkies and Bananas.

    NOT TO BE CONUSED WITH: Intelligent, emotionally-secure women who are free of identity problems, self-hate, racial prejudice and chips on their shoulders.

    – Poorly developed self-identity. Pathetically insecure with themselves and their ethnicity.
    – Resentment of father’s traditional, authoritarian upbringing (whether real or perceived).
    – Brainwashed into believing that they, as AF’s, are more desirable than other women in exotic lotus blossom kinda way. Willingness to pander to western media sexual stereotypes of AF’s, which they perceive as marketing advantage.
    – Thoroughly whitewashed. Desperate need to fit into “mainstream” (i.e. white) society and to distance themselves from their Asian heritage. Racial inferiority complex.
    – Feigned air of superiority when dealing with members of own race and any other minority groups. In need of major attitude adjustments.
    – Exaggerated, whiny, Encino-esque valley girl accent.
    – Delusions of grandeur… “I want it all…and that begins with the right (i.e. white) guy…” Asian-American princess complex.
    – Uncanny ability of determine one’s nationality, occupation, earning capacity and make of auto within three minutes of commencing a conversation.
    – Exaggerated perception of white males’ value in increasing AF’s social status.
    – Ignorant and narrow-minded, eager to adopt and perpetuate fallacious western media stereotypes of Asian men.
    – A compulsion to trash Asians, particularly Asian men, in order to justify their autoracist tendencies, placate their guilt and bolster their self-esteem.
    – Extremely shallow, self-centered, argumentative and boring.
    – Disdains ethnic studies; regards it as a major threat to her carefully constructed, self-deceptive whiggie identity.
    – Despises all Asian men, with the occasional exception of their brothers (after all, they share the same genes.
    – Believes that racism does not exist because she, as an AF, has never experienced it first hand, or is too dense to realize it. Besides, those Asiaphiles are so nice to her (while plotting to get into her pants.
    – Gets a warm fuzzy feeling when watching The Joy Luck Club, while snuggled up to her geeky Asiaphile boyfriend.
    – Believes that the only reason an Asian person would disrespect her is because they are racist.
    – Has lost count of how many WM’s she’s done this month.
    – The wet-dream come true for socially-handicapped Caucasian nerds who are unable to attract Caucasian women.
    – Threatened and insecure in the presence of any culturally-perceptive Asian person or any AM not fitting her stereotype of the quiet , marginalized, “model minority” geek.
    – Fundamentally insecure, utterly confused, lacking in self respect.
    – Many aging whiggies, after being used and abandoned by WM’s in favor of younger, more nubile whiggies and being rejected by AM’s who see through their transparency, develop a bitterness towards all men, period.
    – Denial of all of the above.
    FACIAL EXPRESSIONS: a) Look of contempt when eyes meet those of any non-white male, converting to beaming grin upon sighting of WM victim/target; b) terminal pout or c) bimboish expression that defies deep thought.
    TYPICAL ATTIRE: Anything trendy, mainstream-looking and seductive (especially if it’s black and tight). Big hair (perhaps their most valuable asset) tossed with hand every 15 seconds. Wonderbra. Fanatical whiggies have been known to undergo certain procedures such as eyelid surgery, breast augmentation and vaginal tightening operations in order to increase their marketability to WM’s. Blue contact lenses and bleached blonde hair have even been sported on occasion. Note: Attire may vary depending on the specific type of WM being targeted.
    I.Q: Too low to measure.
    Personal ad columns (“exotic, slim, SAF seeks successful, generous SWM”), cheerleading squads, sorority houses (role: token “oriental sisters”), T.V. newsdesks, B-grade Kung-Fu flicks, trendy nightclubs (usually found necking with aging WM’s), Chinese restaurants (slumming with the WM and demonstrating that she’s “in touch with her heritage”), anywhere else frequented by White males.
    Age 10: “Mom, why do we have to be (Chinese/Japanese/Korean)? Do you have to dress like that? And what’s with Dad and his accent?
    Age 12: “Mom, I want an eyelid job for Christmas, okay?
    Later on…
    “I’ve always only dated white guys. I don’t know why, I just have.”
    “Race doesn’t matter. I just happen to like white guys. It’s just a preference.”
    “We are the world, we are the children…We…”
    “I’ve gone out with all kinds of guys…Dutch, English, French, German, you name it. Even went out with a Jewish guy once! After all, love is color blind.”
    “Eeeew, Jennifer, how could you go out with that (insert minority group here) guy!?” Totally gross!
    “Oooh Roger, you’re like soooo strong and intelligent. Did you say you drive a beemer? Kewl! (giggle).”
    “I want to learn English better…you maybe teach, handsome man? Are you U.S. citizen?” (Yes FOB’s can be whiggies too!)
    “Like why would I want to go out with an Asian guy? They don’t own me or anything. Uhh, and besides they are all male chauvinist …and domineering too…yeah that’s it! Didn’t you see The Joy Luck Club?”
    Like, I’m dating *out* of my race, so how can I be racists?!! Duh!!
    CLOSELY RELATED TO: Racists, bigots, wannabes, ho’s, chameleons, white supremacists, a fish out of water.
    MEDIA REPRESENTATION/ROLE MODELS: Connie Chung, Amy Tan, Lisa Ling, Margaret Cho, Sheryl Wu Dunn, any of The Joy Luck Club protagonists (except the one who married an Asian dude).
    NATURAL COUNTERPARTS: Asiaphiles…who else?

  • I can’t figure out why google sent me over to your blog but I might as well say I have been quite fascinated by the blog content you have sourced together. How long did it take to begin to get this many WWW users arriving to your blog? I am new to this interenet thing.

  • men who marry foreign women, Asians or Eastern Europeans are those weak, macho-minded, self-centered men looking for a female-servant. A man with high self-esteem, self-respect, who values himself would not be intimidated by an American woman. It is accepted worldwide that the most sexy, hot, smart, educated, the most powerful women in the world are the American women, that’s why women all over the world try to immitate them. American women are the gold standard and those men who looking for slave-women, servants who will serve them and obey them are those weak, losers, unable to deal with strong women. I don’t hate Asian women, we hate what is better. But shortly these women or their daughters will adopt American standards and they will not settle for some kind of a beta-male. American women don’t accept to settle for “beta-males” because they have learned to value themselves. I don’t think that knowing who I am and value myself makes me wrong. May be it is wrong in the eyes of the loser.

  • Just one thing to all filipino people male and female, let me say this as a white person: As a non-American White, we are sick and fucking tired of you calling us American because we’re white. I am Canadian, and believe me if I were American, I’d be equally pissed off if you asumed I’m Canadian and kept calling me Canadian over and over again. White people come from Europe, so just call us White okay? Unless you actually know what country we’re from. One of the 7 I talked to who called me an American actually admitted they and I quote “automatically think I’m American because I’m White” What kind of education system they have over there? I learned we stole Canada from the Indians when I was in grade fucking 4 for fuck sakes. I’m married to a beautiful Filipino but wow do I ever yell at her when she sees a white guy on TV and calls him American, I say how the fuck do you know he’s American did you see his passport or something? She hears his voice ok hes not european then, so he could be Canadian too since we sound like Americans, I’d say all Americans sound exactly like us except for ones from the south, and new york (obvious one there) I live just south of Vancouver so I’m 30 mins drive from Usa border I dont go to the US much but I been around washington and oregon b4 they dont sound any different in northern us on the west coast, so he could very well be Canadian (yes we have tv’s here and yes we have our own tv shows duh – trailer park boys lmao) so I yelled at her I said then hes obviously american or CANADIAN!!!!!!!! SO CALL HIM WHITE UNTIL U KNOW THE FACTS. U DONT CALL A BLACK PERSON AFRICAN DO U? U DONT KNOW IF HES FROM AFRICA OR THE US OR CANADA OR WHEREVER EVER, FUCK.

  • don’t mistake looking for disliking. i always stare at mixt couples but i stare because i find it cool. people have actually mistaken me looking at them to be a racist thing. i am sorry. i my self have a korean boyfriend. i am a caucasian girl. i am far from a racist

  • I am an Asian woman. I find AW/WM relationship disgusting. Asian women in that relationship are almost always 2nd rated, ugly women that Asian men don’t want to marry. Being desperate, they welcome the admiration that white guys give them. I find it hilarious that white guys are so proud of dating/marrying an Asian women since they’re getting 2nd rated rejects. I known a Korean girl who confessed to me that she tried to meet a Korean guy but they won’t give her a second look. She ended up marrying an American (white) guy. I have to admit she isn’t that attractive. But then, the quality of the white guys aren’t that great either. So I guess 2nd rated people who can’t get the “trophies” in their own race ends up pathetically settling for less with other races. I don’t know why but I always see Asian girls with white guys as whores as well. I’m sure they’re not but they just come across as easy sluts.

    p.s. To Asian women: No matter how “well” white guys treat you, Asian women, these guys talk behind your back. The image of skanky whores comes from the way these white guys portray you regardless of whether you’re his wife/gf. Have some pride in your race and stop using white guys to raise your status in the American (white) society. As an Asian woman, I find that both humiliating and pathetic.

  • I’ve been reading over all of the responses & have found this to be a very interesting topic. I actually came across this thread while researching a topic for one of my Asian culture courses. I’ve found some things to be truthful & some things to be hurtful, mostly in regards to the negative attitudes directed to my ethnicity, which is white American. I honestly never realized that so many men had such negative opinions of us, mostly because I’ve always viewed myself as a very moral & upstanding person who would make a good girlfriend to a good man no matter what race they may be. Then again, I’m only a third-year college student, so maybe I’m just really lacking in experience or worldly-knowledge.

    I am third-generation Irish-American & I look every bit the part with very pale white skin, light brown hair & eyes, dabblings of freckles, very tall height of 5’11” & overall, completely Northern European facial features. I likely even carry the red-hair gene in my body, since half my family’s red-haired & green-eyed. I would not say that I’m beautiful or anything like that, but I do think that I’m fairly pretty by most standards. I’m not overweight like so many have mentioned about white Americans in some of the posts, but I’m not really thin either. I have a very healthy, athletic & toned build which is a result of my love for competitive kickboxing & ice-hockey. I’ve got a little bit of a butt & wide hips on me, but I don’t consider that to be a horrible or catastrophic aspect to my appearance. Most of the women in my extremely large (150+) extended family are built similar to me, even after having 4 or 5 children. There’s a couple in there who did not get the traditional family or genetic build & have to fight their weight all the time, but I still love them for who they are, overweight or not. And for all of those who have said that Americans girls are “easy”; well, that definitely doesn’t apply to all of us. I’ve only had two boyfriends (both white of European descent), both of which did not work out due to the fact that I was too moral or “sexually” traditional for them. And my morality (no sex or the like until at least an engagement) is not a result of religion or even culture, but my own personal belief system that I built specially for myself over the years.

    I also have a good number of Asian friends, both Asian-American & foreign born. I have never felt jealous in any way of them. In fact, I’ve actually felt protective of a few of them, due to the so-called “yellow fever” & I refuse to see a guy use her just because he has an Asian fetish or something of that ilk. Truthfully, most of my Asian friends date men of similar ethnicities as themselves, but I do know two girls who are dating white guys. I do not see anything wrong with interracial dating as long as it’s done out of love & not out of some kind of lustful fetish or for money. But please, don’t lump all of us white American women together, each of us have our own individual personalities & moral codes, albeit I will be the first to admit that many of my fellow female college students are sleazes (of all races, I might add).

    I think I would make a very good wife, no matter what race my future husband may be. I personally have always been attracted to mostly white males, some hispanics & Asian males; the last of which was surprising for most of my friends & family. Mostly due to the fact that I’m so damned tall, which is a little problematic. I’ve always had a soft spot for Koreans or Japanese & this is likely due to my extensive martial arts & kickboxing background. And my family doesn’t care what my future husband looks like or what race he is. They just make a point in saying that he better treat me right or else he’ll have to answer to them.

    Am I independent? Yes, I will have my DVM in a few more years & I like having a career & strong opinions of my own. Am I bossy at times? Yes, my brothers are always telling me this. Am I slightly eccentric? Yep, I’ve got my fair share of quirks. Am I high-maintenance? I honestly don’t think so, as long as I’m treated right by my man & given love, I’m content. I may be a little picky in regards to his education level, but after 8+ years of college, I got a right to be. Am I a feminist? Yes, I am, but I’m not someone who will try to push it onto others unless I feel a crime has taken place or someone is being mistreated. My choice of sports is a pretty good reflection of my personality, although the fact that I work with animals is another good reflection of the gentler side of me. And I’m a huge tomboy & pretty opinionated, but I don’t believe in “ruling the roost”. A marriage should be equal, not one-sided.

    Would I be upset if a man dismissed me just because I am a white American woman? Maybe, but I’d likely give him the finger too for being so self-centered & judgmental of a woman he doesn’t even know. Would I be upset to see a white man with an Asian wife? No, I truthfully would not be, because they could truly be in love with one another & be completely happy in their relationship. The only thing that pisses me off is when I see the really old men with the young Asian women because my first thoughts are: he’s using her & she’s using him. But other than that, the only thing that bothers me is when people judge me based on my ethnicity & never make an effort to get to know the real me.

    I’m much more than a stereotype.

  • hi.so american women don’t like asian women? i have been to new york and i did not see any american girls be bad to asians girls but japanese girls can be very cold to white girls. i did not ecsperianse to much of that in any other asian contrys. but let me tell you something. alot of asian women don’t like white women. i have friends everywere in this world and of every race too. both female and male. i travel alot. all asian women do not act the same way and some of them don’t like each other. japanese girls don’t act like chinese girls and all japanese girls dont act the same way either. i am not american but i can agree that many american girls can be very bossy but so can many south korean girls be too. japanese girls are the best actors. japanese men have no ide how japanese girls really is. acting so cute. they do it to get their way. my female friends told me boys cant resist cuteness. taiwanese girls are more honest then japanese girls are. chinese girls are more nice then japanese girls. my japanese female friends said that some japanese girls don’t like white girls because of or white skin. some of them pay much money to get lighter skin but we got it for free. my chinese male friend said that alot of girls bade in milk. sorry if i have offended anybody. i just want us all to be friends. take care.

  • I’m a black male, and I was out with my Asian girlfriend one day, and I over-heard another Asian woman make a negative comment about me, while with her White friend. I felt sorry for her, one way for people to bond together is to make a negative comment about another race. Please don’t use my race to help you bond w/ your friends, learn to be confident enough about yourself, whereas, you don’t have to verbally put down other people to prop yourself up to gain more acceptance or favor of your friends.

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